Friends With Better Lives

If you're going to have a poker night at your house, who would you invite?  Probably people you know well, such as friends from work or the neighborhood.  A poker game at your neighborhood club might work the same way -- but we've seen nights where things can get a bit testy.

The Tournament Director might want to run things like a "real tournament" in Las Vegas, with blind random draws for seats.  We've heard players complain over the years they prefer to sit with their friends, because it's the only time of the week when they can get together.

We can understand the desire to be with your buddies.  But doesn't that overlook something?  You might wind up making new friends at a more random table -- friends who can change your way of thinking, or even change your life.

Consider Someone whose "friends" didn't seem logical....

While Jesus was having dinner at Levi's house, many tax collectors and "sinners" were eating with him and his disciples, for there were many who followed him. - Mark 2:15

Jesus was "followed" by the Pharisees, the religious leaders of the day (Matthew 12:38).  But their following was more in skepticism, looking for a flaw or a reason to have the Lord punished (Matthew 12:14).  Jesus likely was aware of that - and so He grew closer to people who were of a different class. 

The Son of Man came eating and drinking, and they say, "Here is a glutton and a drunkard, a friend of tax collectors and 'sinners.'"  But wisdom is proved right by her actions. - Matthew 11:19

....For I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners. - Matthew 9:13b

Jesus wants to be your friend, even if you've lived a sin-filled life.  But make no mistake: He wants you to turn from those sins you're in.

You are my friends if you do what I command. - John 15:14

If you need help developing that kind of friendship, leave a comment. We'll be happy to help.