Wednesday, May 20, 2009

Break it to me gently

We asked about "bullying" tactics at the poker table. For some players, this comes naturally. We finished second yesterday at an NBC Sports five-player game to a man who raised on almost every hand.

"Do you make a bet, ever?" he asked.

"When the time's right," we said.

We think some players overdo the bullying. It didn't work for that Italian wunderkind at the NBC Heads-Up Tournament, as Daniel Negreanu slowed him down and beat him. Maybe that's the key to success -- to take a reasoned approach. We found another word for it.

"Let your gentleness be evident to all," Paul advises in Phil. 4:5. Why? "The Lord is near." We think he meant the return of Jesus, which Paul seemed to expect in his lifetime. But if you're a believer, the Holy Spirit is so near He's inside you.

"Be completely humble and gentle...." Paul adds in Eph. 4:2, "bearing with one another in love." May this reflect your attitude as you play -- and think about trying that approach as you play.

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